“My life is already changing…”
“Although I seemed popular in my social circle I never got a girlfriend from my social circle. I have always been wondering what was wrong, and Social Circle Mastery cleared my mind on many important issues.
I would like to divide the Social Circle Mastery course into 3 main parts. The first part is the basic concepts of the social matrix. The core idea for this part is the definition of different types of connectors. You want to fill your social circle with social connectors, who have great social connections, and value connectors, who have access to rare resources. You don’t have to hate social dead end but you can’t spend much of your time on them, who can’t offer anything and cause you bad emotions all the time. This concept itself is very helpful, but you definitely need the seminar to get enough details on how to identify different types of connectors and how to befriend them. This concept is not trying to let you merchandize your friends. The truth is, you do have your goals to achieve (not only pick up girls), and you have limited time. So you do need to build a good social circle filled with connectors. Social Circle Mastery is not teaching you some dark science to trick your friends. It is just explains what successful people have done.
The second part is about how to build your social circle. The quote that I like most in this part is “life gives to the givers and takes from the takers”. You can’t just identify who are the connectors and just go ahead and get their social network or value. You need to provide value before you take any value from others. That is how things are balanced. Then it comes the very important concept of the structure of your social circle. Braddock divides any social circle into 4 layers. The most inner layer should have around 5 people, and the second layer should have around 10~15 people. These numbers are definitely not random and you will know why if you take the course. The seminar also discussed many important techniques on how to befriend connectors, among which alignment is the concept that I like most. It also covers some important strategies, such as you need to be in a high position of at least one social tree, and it is better to be at the top part of a high-value social tree than being the king of nerds.
The last part is how to get laid in your social circle. I don’t want to talk much about this part because if you can really do the first and second part well, I think you don’t even need to try hard to get girls in your social circle. Still I think the 5 step social circle game is very helpful.
Summary: Social Circle Mastery really reveals the social matrix and I feel that I have a much better understand about social dynamics now. It is not long after I come back from the seminar, but as I start to apply the techniques, I can feel that my life is already changing. What the Social Circle Mastery seminar taught me is definitely beyond some trick to get girls, but it is something that will benefit me for my lifetime.”
- P. N., Rennes, France